Tuesday 13 September 2016

37 - THE POWER OF TEACHERS


TEACHERS AS LEADERS

THE TRANSFORMATIVE EFFECT OF TEACHING ON SOCIETY

Education is the strength that prepares learners for their annual examinations, and also for life.  And it is upto teachers to empower young minds, not only with concepts of language, science and maths, but also with values of human dignity, truth  and fairness.  Most schools advertise the final board results, boast about 100% pass confirmed and how some students score the highest in a particular stream.  So parents strive towards ‘marks’ and pay through the nose, to let their wards join extra classes, so that they can get the ‘highest’ grades.  Learning outcomes based on marks gained, are  easily measured and widely understood. 

In Mumbai, I teach in an ICSE institution, with a co-ed student policy.  Teachers here, as in any co-ed environment, instill empathetic attitudes among students of opposite gender.  Although I teach the primary section, there have been many instances, where I have faced challenges, to sensitize students about each others’  different needs.  Girls are more gentle, compared to boys, who have to be tempered to gentle attitudes during study and play time.  This I strongly believe, will lead to good human beings, better behaved young men and more docile daughters-in-law,  will reduce acts of rape, or road rage and dowry murders.  But why has co-ed education so far, not been successful in reducing such incidents?  In my school, we have special value education periods.  Through the medium of stories, assembly prayers, in house red cross clubs, interact club activities etc,  students get a chance to experience social issues and contribute in a small way to charity.  We observe canteen day and collect funds towards old age homes.  Special days like ‘grandparents’ day’,  parents’ day,  let students and their family form closer bonds.  Such activities involve us teachers, as resource persons, to set up the programmes, organise the activities, which as a teacher, I consider it my duty, as it helps our students to be socially more amicable.  In the words of Benjamin Franklin,  “tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.”   Besides, the above activites,  we directly involve the adults that are connected with each student and so a wider spectrum of society is affected in a positive way.  Very often, schools only emphasize on learning subjects like language, history, science, ICT etc and the spiritual side is reduced to a mandatary morning prayer only. 

Successful and famous persons in the world today are in varied categories.  Steve Jobs was rich and philanthropic,  Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam was famous and empathetic.  But the good examples are few.  How did that come about?   That others are corrupt, greedy and bereft of values and virtues?  Some where in their growing up years,  there must have been a catalyst that made them so.  As a teacher, I strive to be a catalyst of reform in my school environment,  in little ways, and hope that the future students will recall and be better citizens in our society, as adults.  Even at the primary level, students do face stress.  A divorce, or the prolonged illness of a family member, or some financial problems, or even personal medical emergencies.  In spite of these hurdles,  I, as a teacher, must be intuitive, and allow them to make friends with stress.  Stress has positive shades also.  I empathise and help the student concerned to change his mind about stress and thus allow them to change their body’s response to stress.  Maybe my tactics have been instrumental in preventing so many hopeless and  impromptu suicides.  I help students to face their dreads and so learn to accept failure and also realize that failure is transient and hard work does pay in the long run.  A student who cannot write neatly or faces a spelling block,  is then my muse for the effort that I need to put in to change that positively.  I involve parents and his friends and classmates, in subtle ways, to assure the change.  As a teacher, I want to be effective, and not too pushy.  Mentoring is a very effective way of transforming the teacher and the taught.  My school encourages mentoring to improve grades and behaviour.  I have to be a mentor, or in other words, a surrogate parent.  A student spends 3/4th of their waking hours with teachers, at school, and so an affectionate relationship develops, when students have unshakable faith in the teacher’s words.  As a teacher, I can make a lasting impression  on the mind of the child, by  reinforcing appropriate values and attitudes.The student confides in the teacher and thus realizes that there is no problem that cannot be surmounted.  This will make them more tolerant adults of our society.
As a teacher, I appreciate and whole heartedly participate in the good practices that our school encourages.  Public speaking is encouraged and debates on current topics are held on special festival days.  India has a rich heritage of intercaste festivals which provide a good platform to bring about communal harmony at the school level too.  In simple handwork activities and displays,  as a teacher, I strive to inculcate sensitivity among students of different communities.  Especially the Social Science topics of neighbourhood and festivals, afford a vast arena to teachers, to let students experience and learn, beyond the book and the curriculum.  If the topic covers the main religions, then I include the minor ones too, Hindus, Muslims, Christians and Sikhs,   are taught, then I encompass some information about Jews, Parsis, Jains, too.  In some way,  it widens the thinking limits of my class, as they realize the intricacies involved in divergent communities,  and they realize that there are many more possibilities and traditions and that all should be respected.  If a particular trait is ridiculed,  as a teacher, I feel it is my duty to make students empathise and cultivate an inherent respect for the other community rituals too.  I use stories, videos and drama, until I am satisfied that the problem has been resolved.  This I sincerely believe will also inhibit violent attitudes towards other religions and activities.
I strongly believe that society is shaped by the education that young minds receive.  Their future success is not only in good grades, but the good experiences they go through while in school.  So as  educators, we teachers  create positive experiences for our students.  Experiences that will give them necessary lessons for life. Students learn discipline, punctuality, organisational tactics, by getting a chance to use these capabilities at the school level,  by hosting interschool functions, being fair while judging contests etc.   The young generation of India , on whose shoulders the future of the nation rests, must be made to realize  the strengths like truthfulness, self-control, simplicity, humility, perseverance and gratitude.  Theme assemblies and stories, based on these virtues, is bound to impact the minds that are our precious treasures, to mould positively.  In order to produce highly motivated and self driven liaders of tomorrow,  inspiration has to be an integral part of our education.  As St. Mother Teresa had said, “let us do little things in a great way”,  and she set the example herself.
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader. John Quincy Adam.
This quote best summarizes what teachers who are leaders do, each day. Dealing with children means teachers have immense powers to inspire and make a change. And with great power comes greater responsibility. Today’s society is fast-changing. Children are exposed to all kinds of information at a very young age.
Be it the internet where they can Google and learn things without having to open a text book or watching movies and TV where they can learn about all the news and trends around the world.   Filtering this information and giving direction to children so that they know how to distinguish good from bad,   is what teachers do.

Besides this, they also play a pivotal role in being emotional support for students, some who come from broken families and some who have lost all motivation to  study.    It is these instances that make teachers the agents of change  in students'  lives.
I remember the one time I met my student at a mall. It was not the usual school setting. He wished me and then hid behind his mother. The boy, a polite 6-year-old  child, was also an introvert.  We bid goodbye to each other and he went shopping along with his mother.   I forgot about our meeting and got busy with my chores.

 But a few moments later,  I noticed the same boy, do something remarkable.   He picked up a wafer packet thrown on the shopping mall floor by an older man,  walked up to him and requested him to discard it in a dustbin.   I was amazed at this child’s bravery.    I felt as if all the times I reminded children to ensure that garbage was to be thrown only  in the bin , had worked like a charm on him.
This is just a small anecdote that showcases how teachers can bring about a change in society.
Nobel Peace Prize winner, Malala Yousafzai famously said: One child, one teacher, one pen and one book can change the world. At a time when the world is facing international threats of intolerance in the form of terror, it is only education that can mould young minds into knowing that peace is the only way forward.

So teachers have  an indispensable role to play in forming future society, and I am so proud to be a cog in the giant machine that moves society and shapes our future world.

 

Saturday 10 September 2016

36 - ACID ATTACKS

It is the sad truth that in India, spurned lovers throw acid on their victims.  The girl suffers for no fault of hers, except that she was pretty enough to arouse the monster man's emotions. Preeti Rasthi died because of an acid attack at Bandra teminus, in 2013.   The current news is that Preeti Rathi's murderer was sentenced to death but he was smiling in the courtroom and even threatened the family with dire consequences when he would be released.  So, he is sure that the higher court will consider his 'youth' and a chance to be 'redeemed' and thus let him face a 'life sentence' instead.  And a life sentence in India amounts to a few years in prison and then release.  Such heinous crimes deserve a heinous punishment.  The culprit should also be made to suffer an acid attack as a punishment.  That would be justice and an impediment for future attackers too.

What riled me most when I watched this news was that his lawyer was a female, and she was condoning his conduct and almost announcing that he was blameless and that the sentence was biased because the victim was a girl?   I sincerely feel that this lawyer should empathise with the victim and her family and should not have even represented the felon. Preeti was only 24 years old, young and pretty and perfectly healthy.  She died because of the attack and now the boy involved gets a sentence after 3 years?  The girl's old father is seeking justice for his daughter.  Why did it take so many years for justice and that too, it will be questioned in a higher court yet.  In such cases, one begins to doubt the judicial system and of course the typical response is that 'justice delayed, is justice denied'.

The latest victim of  a gruesome acid attack is the case of 19 year old Reshma banoo Quereshi.  Two years ago, this daughter of a taxi driver, was attacked with acid by her brother-in-law, when she was only seventeen.  This year, Lakhme fashion week in New York, prepped her up and she was the show-stopper, at the event. 

Laxmi Agarwal was only 15 when she suffered an acid attack by a 32 year old man, who she had refused to marry, in 2005.  She fought for the rights of acid attack victims and even hosted a TV show to enlighten the public about the plight of victims.  In 2014, she found love with a social activist, Alok Dixit and they decided not to marry, but to be in a live in relationship. 

Why does a person resort to such a vicious revenge?  How can you profess love and then want to destroy the person physically like that?  I have personal experience about a couple who were so good together and then there was a rift because of family opposition.  Then the boy resorted to verbal abuse, and physical abuse by throwing things at the girl involved.  Thankfully he only used water and juices to vent his anger and frustration.  He went onto make new relationships and I wonder how he is making the new girl in his life suffer, because certain males have a very bloated ego and they repeat abusive behaviour.  It is a sad story for the girls that have suffered with him because they will never trust a male or believe in love, I'm sure. 

Such attitudes should be changed during formative years by the parents and teachers.  But school education only stresses on marks and not on forming characters.  As a teacher, I have to deal with  quite a few children from abusive parental relationships or broken homes.  Such students do not perform well academically and hardly smile.  It is a challenge that I face daily, to make them passionate about any school activity,  so that it brings a smile on their face.